Amsterdam!

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Naturally, a trip through the Netherlands would not be complete without a visit to her famously naughty city, Amsterdam. Now, absinthe, hookers, and a city in a haze of pot smoking splendor always sprung to mind when thinking of Amsterdam. This was mainly a result of pop culture and movies like euro trip that depicted it as such. The city was a short metro ride from the campsite and so we hopped in on a rainy Monday to see for ourselves what all the fuss was about.
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Amsterdam053Arriving in the city we were immediately greeted by a good amount of construction that has apparently been ongoing for a few years now. The city streets however were very cool. Cobblestone, canals, sex shops, bikes and massively important looking architecture in every direction made our first few moments in the cities grasp memorable.
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The rain created a very authentic shine off the city streets as we walked and took in the alleyways and storefronts. We were both shocked to find out that the house in which Anne Frank was in hiding for nearly 4 years was situated only a few blocks from us so we took the opportunity to take the tour. Now, this was fairly special to me since on of the only books i had legitimately read in high school was the Diary of Anne Frank. So, being familiar with her story i was particularly intrigued.
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The project to maintain the home was initially made possible by the mayor of Amsterdam who allowed the location to remain as a historical site and Anne’s father Otto who lead the restoration project. The tour was very powerful and quite moving as we entered what was the small space that Anne and Fritz Pfeffer had kept quiet for so long. We left the tour with a strong visual of the place where Anne’s remarkable writings came to be and how her story of inner strength and powerful human spirit continue to inspire. After our tour we met up with Marika (who, if you have read our Vietnam blogs you might remember) who now lives in Amsterdam. As a refresher, we met Marika and her friend Mariella in Ho Chi Minh City in Vietnam and traveled with them for a few weeks. We grabbed a drink with her, hit the grocery store and headed back to her place for some traditional Dutch home cookin.
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Marika whipped up some delicious Dutch mashed potatoes and bratwurst that was topped off with an appel cinnamon yogurt and homemade cheesecake that her roomate had prepared. We had a really nice time spending time with Marika, her boyfriend Vessel and her roomies. The next day after Nicole and I strolled around the less rainy city, we met up with Mariella who had traveled over an hour from her home town to Amsterdam just to meet us for lunch! We all then met up with Marika and  to grab some dutch sandwiches.
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After our departure from our Dutch friends we made one final stop at the Van Goh museum. Unfortunately, he’s pretty famous so photography inside was a “no-no”.
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So yes, Amsterdam does have a few dirty secrets but it was a rather beautiful city with alot of energy and style. The Dutch are also some of the friendliest people on earth and so for that, we say, “dank u wel” Netherlands, we enjoyed your beer, food and hospitality. Oh, and dank u for readin, adam
How do you build a life around adventure and travel?

Intentionally and incrementally. Most families who live this way did not leap from conventional to adventurous overnight. They built remote work capacity, paid down debt, tested longer trips, and had increasingly honest conversations about what they actually want from their lives. The leap feels bigger from outside than from inside.

What does an adventurous family lifestyle actually look like?

Different for every family. For some it is long-term travel. For others it is weekend adventures close to home. What connects them is intentionality about how time is spent and a preference for experiences over accumulation. The version that fits your family is the right one.

How do you balance adventure with stability for kids?

By finding stability within the adventure rather than treating them as opposites. Routines, rituals, and family rhythms travel with you. Familiar foods, bedtime routines, and predictable family dynamics provide stability even when the location changes. Kids need consistency in relationships more than consistency in geography.

What has travel taught your family?

That people are fundamentally similar across cultures in what they want for their families. That comfort zone is a smaller circle than it feels from inside. That the things worth having in life require effort and discomfort to get. And that time together doing hard interesting things is the most reliable source of family closeness.

How do you handle the pressure to live conventionally when you have chosen differently?

By getting clear on why you made the choices you made and returning to that clarity when the outside noise gets loud. Most families living unconventionally describe an initial period of explaining themselves that gradually gives way to just living the life. The explaining becomes less necessary as the results become visible.


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