United States Family Travel Guide

🇺🇸United States Hogwarts castle at the Wizarding World of Harry Potter in Universal Studios Florida under a blue sky

Universal Orlando. More families come to me for this one square mile of Florida than for every country in Europe put together, and it is the part of my job I know best

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United States Family Travel Guide

“It is not a country. It is fifty of them wearing one flag, and the single biggest mistake people make is thinking they can see it in two weeks.”

Nicole and Adam standing under the Universal Studios Florida arch in Orlando
Nicole’s Perspective

I am from Kansas. We sold that house before we left for Europe, which means the country I know best is also the one I no longer have an address in. That is a strange thing to write a guide about, and it is also why I think I can be honest about it.

In 2017 we drove forty five days across it with three children under six. Kansas to San Diego and home through Memphis and Nashville. Legoland, Sea World, the USS Midway, a dead battery in the rain, and a lot of hotel rooms. Before the kids we did the Southwest run, the Grand Canyon in snow, Sedona, Carlsbad Caverns, Taos. So I have driven it, not flown over it.

And then there is Orlando. More families have booked Universal and Orlando through me than any other destination on the planet, by a margin that is not close. Seventy five families and counting. It is the thing I know down to which park to do on which day and which ticket not to buy, and it is the one piece of this guide where I am not giving you general advice, I am giving you my actual job.

If you are coming from outside the country, the single thing I would tell you is to shrink the plan. Everybody arrives wanting New York, the Grand Canyon and Los Angeles in ten days. That is three flights and a lot of airports, and you will remember the airports. Ask me to build it properly.

Where People Actually Go

There are fifty states and almost nobody visits more than a handful. These eight are where the overwhelming majority of family travel here actually happens, and the ones at the top of the list are not the ones a map would suggest. Florida takes more visitors than any other state, California is second, and after that it is New York and Nevada.

Every State On One Page

All fifty states plus Washington DC, grouped the way you would actually drive them. The ones with a gold Guide tag are written and live, so click straight in. The rest are on my list and I am working down it one state at a time. If you need one of them before I get there, just ask me.

The Southwest

ArizonaGuide
New Mexico
Oklahoma
TexasGuide

The Midwest

IllinoisGuide
Indiana
Iowa
Kansas
Michigan
Minnesota
Missouri
Nebraska
North Dakota
Ohio
South Dakota
Wisconsin

The South

The Northeast

Connecticut
MaineGuideMassachusettsGuide
New Hampshire
New Jersey
New YorkGuide
Pennsylvania
Rhode Island
Vermont

How Much Time Do You Actually Need

This is the question I get most from families outside the country and the honest answer annoys people. It is not a long weekend country unless you already live here. It is not a two week country either, not if you mean seeing it.

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The numbers people do not believe

Kansas to San Diego is twenty four hours of driving. Texas alone is bigger than France. New York to Los Angeles is a six hour flight and three time zones. Miami to Seattle is further than London to Cairo. The map does not feel this big and then you drive it.

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One region per trip

Ten days buys you one region done properly. Florida and the parks. California from San Francisco to San Diego. The Southwest loop out of Las Vegas. New York and New England. Pick one and go deep. You will have a better trip and it will cost less.

Fly between regions, drive inside them

Internal flights here are cheap and frequent and there is no shame in using them. Driving between regions eats days. Driving inside a region is the whole point.

We took forty five days and we still only did a corridor of it. If somebody tells you they did the United States in two weeks, what they did was three cities and four airports.

A black asphalt road running straight between brown grass fields in Utah

This is the part nobody photographs and it is most of the country. Hours of it, between the things you came to see

Orlando and the Theme Park Machine

This is my specialty and I am going to be blunt about why. Orlando is the single hardest thing to book well and the easiest thing to book badly, and the gap between those two is thousands of dollars and a week of your life. Seventy five families and counting have let me do it for them. Here is what I would tell you over coffee.

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Universal is four parks now, not two. Universal Studios Florida, Islands of Adventure, Volcano Bay and Epic Universe, which opened in 2025 and changed the whole shape of a Universal trip. A two day ticket does not cover it any more. Most families need four or five days if Epic is on the list.

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Park to Park is not optional at Universal. The Hogwarts Express only runs if you have Park to Park, because it physically moves you between two parks. Every year somebody buys the cheaper base ticket and finds out at the platform. Buy Park to Park.

Express Pass comes free with three hotels. Stay at Hard Rock, Portofino Bay or Royal Pacific and Universal Express Unlimited is included for everyone in the room, every day. Price the room difference against buying Express separately for a family of five and the expensive hotel is frequently the cheaper trip. This one calculation is the most valuable thing on this page.

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Disney is a different game. Lightning Lane Multi Pass, early entry for on-site guests, and a dining reservation window that opens sixty days out and is gone in minutes. Disney rewards planning far more than it rewards spending, which is the opposite of Universal.

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When to go, honestly. Late January to mid February, and the first three weeks of September, are the best weeks of the year. Low crowds, low prices, tolerable heat. Avoid mid June through mid August, Christmas week, Easter and Thanksgiving. Summer in Orlando is ninety five degrees, a thunderstorm at three every afternoon, and every line at its longest.

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Why an advisor saves you money here specifically. Ticket bundles and room offers change constantly, they are not always public, and they are frequently repriceable after you have booked. I watch them. If a better deal drops between your booking and your trip, you get it. That is not a service you pay me for, it is how this works.

One more thing. Do not do seven park days in a row. Put a pool day in the middle. Every single family that ignores this comes home saying they wish they had listened.

People standing in front of the Disney castle at Walt Disney World in Orlando at night

Walt Disney World at night. Orlando has forty years of practice at this and it shows, which is also why it takes planning to get right

The National Parks

The best thing this country does. Sixty three national parks, and the system that runs them is the reason a family of five can stand on the rim of the Grand Canyon for the price of one park entry.

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Buy the America the Beautiful pass. Eighty dollars, one vehicle, every federal park and site for a year. If you are doing more than two parks it has already paid for itself. And if you have a fourth grader, there is a free version of this pass for your family. Details just below.

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The Grand Canyon in winter is better. We went in snow and had the rim close to empty. The South Rim is open all year, the North Rim closes for the season, and in July you are waiting in line to look at a hole in the ground with ten thousand other people.

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The Utah five are the best road trip in the country. Zion, Bryce, Capitol Reef, Arches and Canyonlands, all within a long week out of Las Vegas or Salt Lake City. Zion and Arches now use timed entry or shuttle systems in season, so book those the day the window opens.

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Book lodging six months out or camp. In park lodges at Yosemite, Yellowstone and the Grand Canyon sell out roughly a year ahead. Gateway towns are the fallback and they are not cheap in summer either.

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Junior Ranger is the best free thing for kids in America. A booklet at the visitor center, a few activities, a badge and an oath from an actual ranger. My children still have theirs.

Free Park Pass For Fourth Graders

If you have a fourth grader, stop and read this one. Your fourth grader gets you into every national park in the country for a year, free, and almost nobody knows it exists. The program is called Every Kid Outdoors. It is run by the federal government, it costs nothing, and it takes about ten minutes to sort out.

Who gets it. Any child in fourth grade in the United States, including home school fourth graders. One pass per kid, not per family.

When it runs. It goes by the school year, not the calendar year. Every pass starts on 1 September and expires on 31 August the following year. So the 2026 to 2027 pass is good from 1 September 2026 through 31 August 2027, and it does not roll over. Sign your kid up in September and use the whole window.

What it actually covers. Entry to more than 2,000 federal sites, not just the headline national parks. At places that charge by the vehicle it gets in every child under 16 plus every adult in one passenger vehicle, so the whole car. At places that charge per person it covers all children under 16 plus up to three adults. It does not cover parking, camping, boat fees or special tours, so still budget for those.

How you get it. Go to everykidoutdoors.gov, do the short activity with your child, and print the paper voucher. The paper one works on its own. When you get to a park, hand it in at the visitor center and they will swap it for the plastic pass, which is the one your kid will actually want to keep. There is a digital version through Recreation.gov too.

One nine year old, one free pass, and our whole car walks into the Grand Canyon. If you have a kid in that grade this year and you are not using it, you are leaving real money on the table. Get the pass here.

A view down Yosemite Valley in California with granite cliffs on both sides

Yosemite Valley. Book the lodging a year out or plan on a tent, there is no third option in summer

The Great American Road Trips

We did forty five days of this in 2017 with a three year old, a four year old and a six year old, and I would do it again. The road trip is the most American thing you can do here and it is better with children than a city break is.

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Pacific Coast Highway. San Francisco to San Diego over a week. Big Sur, Hearst Castle, Santa Barbara, Legoland at Carlsbad which was one of the best days of our whole trip, then the San Diego Zoo and the USS Midway. This is the one I recommend most often to first timers.

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The Southwest loop. Las Vegas, Zion, Bryce, Grand Canyon, Sedona, Monument Valley. Ten days, enormous distances, and scenery that does not let up. We did a version of this before the kids and Carlsbad Caverns and Taos were the surprises.

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Memphis to Nashville. The music route, and a short one. Beale Street, Sun Studio, Graceland, then three hours east to Broadway in Nashville. We finished our 2017 trip on this stretch and it is the part the kids talk about.

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New England in October. Boston, the White Mountains, coastal Maine. Two weeks, gorgeous, and the one American road trip that European visitors consistently underestimate.

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Rules that made ours work. No more than five hours of driving in a day. Stop at the ridiculous roadside thing. Book the hotel by lunchtime, not at nine at night. And a cooler in the trunk saves more money than any other single decision.

City Breaks

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New York with children is easier than people think. The subway, a park in the middle of it, and enough sensory overload that nobody gets bored. Four days. Do the Staten Island Ferry instead of a paid harbor cruise, it is free and the view is the same.

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Las Vegas is a better family city than its reputation. We went with all three kids when our house was empty and it worked. The pools, the fake landmarks, the free shows on the Strip, and it is the best base in the country for the Southwest parks. Just do not walk the Strip in August.

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Nashville, and go before dinner. The Broadway honky tonks are all ages until the evening, so a family can hear live music at four in the afternoon and be gone by seven.

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Washington DC is the best value city in America. Every Smithsonian museum is free. The zoo is free. A week there costs a fraction of what New York costs.

Food

American food outside America means burgers and fried chicken. American food inside America is regional to the point of being tribal, and the good version is almost never in a chain. Portions are enormous and splitting a plate between two children is normal and nobody will blink.

A rack of American barbecue spare ribs
Barbecue. Not one dish, four arguments. Texas does beef brisket, Memphis does dry rubbed ribs, Carolina does pulled pork with vinegar, Kansas City does everything with sauce. I am from Kansas so you know where I land on this.
A hand holding a folded New York pepperoni pizza slice
New York Slice. Thin, wide, folded in half and eaten walking. Two dollars and change at a counter place with no seating. It is the correct lunch in New York and no restaurant version is better.
A cheeseburger and fries on a plate at an American diner
The Diner Cheeseburger. The most reliable meal in the country. Every town has a place doing this well for twelve dollars, and it is almost always better than the chain across the road.
A New England lobster roll on a plate
Lobster Roll. Maine and New England. Cold lobster with mayonnaise, or warm with butter, in a split top bun. Expensive, worth it once, and the roadside shacks beat the restaurants.
A plate of bacon and eggs at an American diner breakfast
Breakfast, Properly. Eggs, bacon, hash browns, endless coffee, and biscuits with sausage gravy if you are anywhere south. Breakfast is the meal this country takes most seriously and it costs almost nothing.

Getting Around

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You need a car almost everywhere. New York, Chicago, Boston, San Francisco and Washington DC are the exceptions. Everywhere else the public transport is thin and the distances are not walkable. Plan on driving.

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Rental car insurance is the thing visitors get wrong. The counter will offer you a stack of waivers at forty dollars a day. Your credit card may already cover the collision damage waiver and your home policy may cover liability, but check both before you land, in writing. Do not decide this at the desk at eleven at night.

Internal flights are cheap and there are a lot of them. Southwest, Delta, American, United, plus budget carriers where you pay for everything separately. A five hour drive is often a ninety dollar flight.

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Car seat law varies by state and it is strict. Most states require a booster to age eight or a height of four foot nine. Rental companies rent them badly and expensively. Bring your own or check the specific state.

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Amtrak is scenic, not practical. The California Zephyr and the Coast Starlight are experiences worth having. As transport between two points on a schedule, it is not competitive.

Money, Tipping and Paperwork

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Tipping is not optional and the numbers have moved. Twenty percent in a sit down restaurant is now standard, not generous. Fifteen is a signal that something was wrong. A dollar or two a drink at a bar, a couple of dollars a bag, ten to fifteen percent for a taxi. Servers are paid a wage that assumes this.

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The price on the label is not the price. Sales tax is added at the register and it varies by state and even by city. Restaurant menu prices exclude both tax and tip, so a thirty dollar plate is closer to thirty eight.

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ESTA if you are coming from a visa waiver country. Apply online at least seventy two hours ahead, it costs twenty one dollars, and it lasts two years. Use the official government site, because the top search results are resellers charging four times as much for the same form.

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Travel insurance with medical cover is not a nice to have. There is no public health system to fall back on. An ambulance ride and a night in an emergency room can run into five figures. Buy the policy.

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Cards everywhere, cash almost nowhere. Tap works nearly universally. Keep twenty dollars in small bills for tips and parking and that is all the cash you need.

When to Go

A country this wide does not have one season. What it has is one calendar problem, which is that American school breaks move the price of everything at the same time.

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Mar to May

The best all round window. Orlando before the heat, the Southwest before it becomes unbearable, the national parks opening up. Avoid the two weeks around Easter and avoid Florida in March if you would rather not share it with spring break.

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Jun to Aug

Peak, hot and expensive. It is also the only window most families have. If it is yours, go north and high. Yellowstone, the Rockies, Maine, the Pacific Northwest. Orlando and the desert in July are endurance events.

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Sep to Nov

My favorite. September in Orlando is the quietest it gets all year. New England turns in October. The Southwest is perfect. Prices drop the week after Labor Day and stay down until Thanksgiving.

Dec to Feb

Florida is at its best and its most expensive. The Grand Canyon in snow is the version you want. Northern cities are cold and cheap. Christmas week is the single worst week of the year to be in a theme park.

With Kids

Poppy, our cavapooPoppy marks the family parts. Wherever you see her, that section is written for travelling with children.
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Hotels charge by the room, not the person. Two adults and three children in one room is normal and free here, which is not true in most of Europe. Look for the ones with a free breakfast and a pool, in that order.

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Restaurant portions will feed two children. Ask for an extra plate. Nobody minds. A kids menu exists nearly everywhere and it is usually cheap and beige.

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The pool is a destination, not an amenity. On a long trip a hotel with a pool buys you two hours of everybody being happy. Ours saved several days in 2017.

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Free stuff is everywhere. Smithsonian museums, most city parks, junior ranger programs, public libraries with air conditioning on a bad day. This country is expensive in the places you expect and free in the places you do not.

What Visitors Get Wrong

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The distances, every single time. I have had people plan a day trip from Los Angeles to the Grand Canyon. It is eight hours each way. This is the one thing I correct more than any other.

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How much the final bill is above the sticker price. Tax, tip, resort fees, parking fees, baggage fees. Budget twenty five to thirty percent above what the menu and the room rate say.

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How empty most of it is. People picture cities. Most of this country is farmland, desert, forest and small towns where the water tower has the name of the place painted on it. The empty part is the part I miss.

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How friendly strangers are, and that it is not fake. A cashier asking how your day is going is not selling you anything. It takes visitors about four days to stop being suspicious of it.

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How brutal the summer heat is in the south and the desert. Phoenix in July is a hundred and eight. Orlando in August is ninety five with total humidity. Plan indoor middles of the day or plan a different month.

Combine It With

If you have the time to add a second country, these are the ones I would actually pair this one with. Not a list of neighbors. A list of trips that work.

Cross by land and it barely feels like a border. Seattle into Vancouver, Glacier into Banff, New England into Quebec City.

Two hours from Texas and a completely different country. Add a few days in the Yucatan onto a Florida or Southwest trip and the trip doubles in range.

The natural add on to Orlando. A short flight or a cruise out of Port Canaveral, and it is the beach week the parks do not give you.

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